Let’s talk about the unspoken praise. Click here to learn more. Flattery has always been and remains one of the most effective instruments of influence on people. Find out more information here. It is used everywhere – at work, in business, in the family, when communicating with friends. Find out more here. Because many people love it when they are praised, no matter how much this praise is sincere and deserved. Find out more here. And in some situations, the most effective flattery is a rather crude and obvious flattery, which nicely fills people’s souls and immerses them in a world of dreams. Click here to learn more. Despite this, people, as a rule, do not like to admit that flattery influences them, that they succumb to it and become its victim. It’s understandable, no one wants to feel weak, and the flop of flattery is just a manifestation of weakness. Click here to learn more. Flattery is an obsequious, often utterly insincere and even hypocritical praise of someone in order to please him and achieve his favor. Find out more information here. It is one of the most common ways of manipulating people. In this article, dear friends, we will talk about why many people are flattered, how to recognize it, how to respond to it correctly, and how to use flattery for one’s own purposes. If you want to know moreclick here.
So, first let’s find out why people are flattering. Additional informationhere. It is important to pay attention to both your own feelings and the behavior of other people in order to explain the person’s need for flattery. If you want to know moreclick here. You probably know that people want to think about themselves well, and, in fact, if they are all right with self-esteem, they think so. If you want to know moreclick here. And they, naturally, want others to think about them also and even better. Therefore, they love when they are praised, when they extol their qualities, when they are singled out against the others. Click here to learn more. This gives them confidence, increases their self-esteem, inspires, calms, helps cope with depressed mood and so on. Find out more information here. Thus, when we flatter a person, we, in fact, tell him what he thinks about himself or wants to think about. If you want to know more click here. And he wants to think so because it is important for him to be meaningful. Click here to learn more. And to be meaningful means to be valued by people and to be in demand by them, which in turn allows a person to count on acceptance by his society and to the help of other people. Find out more information here.
That is, everything ultimately rests on the basic task of man – survival. A person can survive in this world only with the help of other people, so it is important for him that people think about him well. Click here to learn more. Flattery is an affirmation that one is happy with a person and that he is an important figure in society. Details can be read herehere. In general, when we talk about the influence of flattery on people, we need to understand where it flattery draws its strength. Details can be read herehere. And its strength is not that people love when they are praised, but in people themselves, or rather, in their lives. We live in a world that is not always friendly to us. Click here to learn more. Many of us live in an environment of such people who do not care about us at all and do not expect a kind word from them. Find out more information here. But for the sense of social belonging, the recognition of other people is very important. Find out more here. But imagine a situation in which you are praised from childhood, telling you that you are the best. Imagine that what you would not do – all of you are satisfied, everyone is delighted with you, everyone admires you. Click here to learn more. I understand that this is difficult to imagine, since in the life of most of us everything happens quite the contrary – we are more scolded, criticized or completely ignored. Additional informationhere. But still, try to imagine it. And now ask yourself – when will it bother you, when you lose interest in those people who are constantly praising you for everything? It is quite obvious that you will sooner or later put it on and you will no longer perceive someone else’s praise as something of value. Click here to learn more. The reason is the excess of this very praise, the excess of human attention, the excess of positive emotions, the excess of admiration from the people. Find out more information here. That is, a way of life in which you feel like a navel of the earth – will make you practically, if not entirely, indifferent to flattery. If you want to know moreclick here. What is in our life a lot – we are not appreciated and not seen – we are indifferent to this. But, one should not forget that people get used to flattery, so even if there are many of them in their life, they do not cease to appreciate it. Click here to learn more. They just begin to consider it the norm. Click here to learn more. Can you guess now, what is the power of flattery? The fact that a person lacks attention, praise, respect, recognition, love, admiration from other people. Find out more information here. Therefore, when someone starts to flatter such a person, then for him this flattery is worth his weight in gold – he perceives it as a sip of cool water in a hot desert. Additional informationhere.
We appreciate what in our life is not enough and what we need. Therefore, good flatterers simply give people what they need. But there is another side to this question – flattery is in vain and those people who have a very high opinion of themselves and like to be listened to and obeyed by all. For them, flattery is not something scarce – for them it is the norm and a manifestation of obedience from other people. Click here to learn more. Therefore, they only surround themselves with flatterers, not tolerating those who in some way will contradict them and reproach them in some way. In this case, vanity makes flattery not just sweet for the vainglorious person, but the only true form of communication for other people with him. Click here to learn more. After all, there are people in our society who have a certain power and authority, who want to live and live in their own worlds, and in these worlds they do not want to see anything wrong, nothing that contradicts their beliefs. Click here to learn more. And the more they do not want to see their weaknesses, shortcomings and mistakes. Click here to learn more. Therefore, they remove from themselves all those who somehow can disrupt their comfort by their disagreement and draw closer to themselves those who are ready to tell them every day about their greatness, beauty, strength, outstanding intelligence and suchlike things. Click here to learn more. Of course, in such a life there are a lot of shortcomings – at least it relaxes a person and makes him inadequate. Find out more here. But while enjoyment lasts, many people just do not think about it. Find out more information here. Therefore, flattery is not only a scarce form of behavior that people need, but also one of the forms of manifestation of obedience. Find out more here.